Wordpress Ideas

Ok, I just set my wordpress blog on a stand alone domain but I'm having some trouble setting things up. For one thing I really want a top comment widget on the sidebar, but I can't figure out where to find one. I also am looking for a really cool theme, but to stand out I definitely need to do a little customizing of my own.

Anyhow, if anyone knows where to find a nice comment widget, please let me know and post a comment here.